I think I am going to have to stop watching these Bachelor/Bachelorette shows. They are emotionally draining and I've been devastated by the ending almost every single time. Really DeAnna, Jesse??? What in the name of all that is good and holy are you thinking? The two of you looked like complete idiots on the couch. You were acting very fake and not at all like the DeAnna that viewers have now watched on two seasons of the Bachelor shows. Your father looked stunned, Jason and Jeremy are going to need intense therapy. I am very disappointed in how she strung Jason along. Their last date looked perfect. She was giving him every signal that she was in love with him too. B-I-T-C-H And as for May 9, 2009? I seriously doubt that you will be walking down any aisle that day with the exception perhaps of a supermarket aisle!